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Gender disappointment: It's not what you think
تم نشره في 2021/11/16
While I always intended to talk about how I felt about finding out we're having a baby boy - because that's what I do....talk about how my grief impacts my life - I was ASTOUNDED at the level of closed minded comments I saw on my gender reveal video. Little Bean will be raised emotionally intelligent. I won't tell him he's an ungrateful child just because he wishes his mother wasn't sad for her daughter. We will experience so much love and joy together AND I will be sad for Noah, that is inevitable and it will affect my little boy and we will talk about it and he will know its ok to feel however he feels. I wish it wasn't this way too my Son. ♡ OUTFIT https://thelullabyclub.com.au/?ref=xnHpemtdy2VM3T ‘LOVENOAH’ for 10% off ♡ SOCIALS Instagram: @itsjudeaaa @rememberingnoah_lee ♡ MUSIC Dj Quads - Missing someone ♡ PO BOX PO BOX 4316 Mount Maunganui South Tauranga Bay of Plenty 3149 NZ
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I am really sorry that not everyone was supportive of your feelings in your last video, but your feelings are completely valid, and experiencing disappointment isn't selfish or ungrateful - it's deep-rooted emotions and feelings that come from losing your precious baby. You will love your child regardless and gender disappointment/expectations certainly doesn't change that, your little bean is so lucky and once he is here - you will be head over heels.
Not saying you won’t love your baby boy just as much as Noah-Lee as you and your husband seem so lovely. Congrats
My son is 15 months now, I can’t express how much I feel like I was destined to have him, it wasn’t what I imagined, it’s a million times more amazing than I could have ever wished for. It’s unfamiliar territory, but facing it is all part of the adventure. ❤️
I was so disconnected during the pregnancy and was sick over how my first child would feel and felt so guilty that I was taking away our time together. I understand our situations are different, but I do somewhat understand how you feel. When my second son was born, all that love came flooding in, no different than my first. I was so thankful because I worried my whole pregnancy I wouldn’t love him the same. My bonds are different, but no stronger than the other. My second boy is also autistic, and has taught me so much about motherhood.
I don’t know what your beliefs are, but I do believe that our lost loved ones can see into us, see our emotions, see our love, our hearts, etc. She knows how much you love her also, when my dad passed, I use to worry that he would be so sad in heaven missing me. My stepmom who is super religious told me there is no sense of time in heaven and that he doesn’t have to miss me because he would feel like he’s just going to see me at dinner time- not years and years. Which is super comforting to believe because although it feels like an eternity here on earth, they never suffer that pain. The love they have for us never changes, and they just feel like they will see us in a minute.
Much love and prayers ....وسعت 45
I’m so happy for you and your family. Can’t wait to see your baby boy. ....وسعت 4
We are TTC now and I thank you for being so honest about your gender disappointment.
Of course, as loss parents, we will always be happy to have a healthy child. but we don't just lose our baby. We lose the dreams we had for our lives with them.
I don't think that's hard to understand at all
Your honesty about your emotions is quite refreshing. Everything you feel is valid so never doubt yourself.
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